
ABOUT ME
Felecia Ashman is a finalizing student at the University of the West Indies. Her favourite part of the degree is the Literature element of it. She absolutely love education and has the passion to inform. “The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically. Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education.” –Martin Luther King, Jr.
Felecia will share multiple articles about women and harassment in the many spaces they occupies.
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MP: Felecia A. Introductory
The Digital Humanities is basically digitalized tools and technology which incorporates creative and critical thinking. There are several multi dimensional platforms which are used for social interaction, educational integration and even marketing.
Here is a link to a padcast that will expound on this…
https://anchor.fm/felecia25/episodes/My-Multimodal-post-e1o8btt

Protection
Fresh out of college eager to explore the working world although employment was familiar to me. This would not be an experiment. Myself and mother had been apartment hunting for months. We found a little place not too far from out of town or from the seaside. So first thing first, get the apartment.
The apartment was small but just enough for me. I had a kitchen and sitting room, bathroom, bedroom with a little extension as the balcony. Remember to come over for dinner and church on a Sunday, and don’t forget to wash your hair every two weeks. You must always have some clothes ironed, sunglasses are made to protect your eyes and a scarf to keep your curls, remember appearance is everything. She was a classy woman. I don’t desire to be ungrateful, my mother has done everything for me for as long as I could remember but I needed to become my person to see myself, feel myself and be myself.
The second task, my first day on the job. Everyone seemed so welcoming. I had been there for two months when one of the senior employees would pop up in the evenings while I would complete my evening task. Out of curiosity, I wondered to myself if management had sent him. On the eve of thanksgiving he popped up in the office but this time was scary as he was directly behind me as I took a drink from the cooler. Frightened! the bottle fell “don’t be afraid I would hurt you”. In less than 5 seconds his tongue was down my throat as I fought him off, the man fought back as if it was his right.

Was I at fault for leading this man on? Am I too pleasant? What will happen when I report this? Never spoken to him more than " hi, good evening". I know this was harassment more so sexual harassment. What the hell him tongue would have any business down me throat? The complaint made, investigation launched like a search party. Take who's word for it, waves of laughter. Innocent until proven guilty and better to be safe rather than sorry. Believe it or not, we are not safe in this world.
Unnecessary Company
Topic: Women and Harassment
Do women have a voice? 🔇🗣📢
Shouldn’t men protect the women of their nation? 👏🏿👮♂️🇯🇲
You will never be able to stop the admiration as a woman but “Men” STOP pestering. Women need to feel safe again to shop freely and enjoy peace.
“We need a world where women don’t get sexually harassed. Full Stop. Period”. Sherly Sandberg
Felecia A. Interview: Modeling Task

Here are two versions of the interview of a female who have experience harassment.
a tictoc version https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMFybXjGR/
The interview (Felecia): Welcome to Let’s talk. My name is Felecia and today we have a visitor, Selina.
Hi, Selina, how are you doing?
Selena: I am fine and how are you?
Felecia: I’m good. I’m good. Thanks for coming. Alright, so my first question to you is how would you define harassment?
Selena: Well, my definition of harassment would be just having someone in your space where you get annoyed, flustered and being perplexed by an unwanted guest or visitor.
Felecia: Good, good. Alright. So my question B is going to be like have you ever experienced any form of harassment and what kind of harassment did you?
Selena: Experience. Well, most definitely. I have been harassed verbally. That incident took place in 2020. OK, and it began when I went to buy a phone charger, bear in mind I have an iPhone. And this guy was like he was buying a charger as well and he’s like, you can’t buy me a charger. I’m just saying like you should buy me one. And he was saying serious, I’m serious. So he bought me an Android Charger. So if he proceeded to ask me for my number.
Felecia: OK, there was that trick to give me the number, right?
Selena: Umm. After getting home, I realize. The number didn’t rub out. So he called . He said, oh, it’s the guy who bought the charger and whatever. So I’m like, OK. He then proceeded to ask me information about myself and I was very skeptical, so I told him my name was Tamara and I’m from Kingston, which obviously is not true. I don’t remember his name, so let’s call him Kemar.
Felecia: his name is Kemar!
Selena: After a while, I think I couldn’t talk at the moment, so he had called back and asked me more information. I told him I was 21 because I was. As it was during the COVID periods, I believe it was 2021, OK. No, it was definitely 2020, definitely 2020. That I was 20 at the time, 2020 that was. He told me he was 27 which was unbelievable, because he was very gray and all. He told where he worked and so on. I’m like, OK. He did proceeded to ask me if.
Felecia: But at this time you had no interest.
Selena: No interest? No, none
Felecia: OK OK.
Selena: It was really just to be polite. I had engaged the conversation, OK? He then proceeded to ask questions about my very personal life and relationship was and so on. I told him I was not interested and I have a boyfriend. He then asked if he was a Christian, and I’m like, no, that doesn’t matter though. And if I was married, I’m like, that doesn’t matter. It’s like, Oh well, I don’t want to hear about that.
Selena: At that time, I remember much of the conversation, and I then remembered he called. He’s always calling. And one specific time he was like, it was a babe. And I’m like, no. That’s that’s very uncomfortable and I don’t want you to call me that. He then went to say oh. God had sent him for me, and If I refuse him I would be punished. Right there and then I was very annoyed because. He continued to call bring up that specific argument saying God sent him. For me and I’ll be punished if I continued to reject him as someone rejected him already and she’s now a prostitute and she’s begging him for money and he said not not saying I’ll turn out like that. But I’ll be pl punished in somewhat.
Felecia: ok… so God like preselected his wife, which was you.
Selena: So I’ve became annoyed. Began to get very uncomfortable with the conversation and with Kemar. Because I know he was definitely telling a lie. After rejecting his advances many times, he was like ohh if I know you were like this I wouldn’t buy any card. The card was $350.00. Like me never know you were like that time, blah blah blah. So I eventually blocked the number. And he called on private number all the time. I said. However, you know, some businesses do come on private number, so I realize it was him, did not answer but at some points I did answer. I’m like no, I’m not interested and end the conversation. I don’t want to be involved with you and decide that he was very persistent, very harassing. I began to declare the number, and then it’s still happening. So I got a friend of mine. I sent him the number, explained the situation to him.
The Voice of our women screaming from Harassment.
a tictoc interview with a young woman who encountered harassment. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMFybXjGR/
A victim of sexual assault.
Harassment has been going on for a while. More than any other person, our women have been most affected. So, what is harassment? According to the online Oxford Dictionary, harassment is aggressive pressure or intimidation. There are several types of harassment but the focus will be on non-verbal harassment, sexual harassment and verbal harassment. Non-verbal harassment, this type of harassment can occur without any physical contact. It includes unwanted, inappropriate comments, sexual gestures and facial expressions. Sexual harassment is very broad and sometimes covers a mirror of offences such as sexual assault or sexual advances. Therefore, sexual harassment can be referred to as any “unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favours, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature” (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, EEOC as cited in [https://www.rainn.org/articles/sexual-harassment]). Verbal harassment is the use of derogatory language and hostility in an inappropriate manner. From physical harassment to verbal harassment, our women have experienced them all. If we should place “catcalling” under verbal harassment, every woman in this culture, within Jamaica would have had an experience of harassment.
Women have been silent based on the corrupted connection where they tend to report less harassment. Sometimes, it depends on who is the harasser since they are not all treated the same. The victim/ harasser ratio is large since 65% of our women get harassed whether verbally, non-verbally or sexually.
What does Harassment look like?
There is the link to a podcast which is an interview done with a victim of verbal harassment.
Here are some kinds of harassment:
- The physical act of sexual intentions
- Unwanted touching or physical contact
- Racial slurs- Jokes about skin colour or race
- Unwanted sexually explicit photos via email or messages
- Unwanted calls or text
- Verbal abuse- degrading names, bullying, threatening, insults or even spreading rumours
- Nonverbal- making the facial experience of throwing kisses, winking, licking or biting lips
- Hand gestures of sex
- Touching of genital areas
Harassment can happen anywhere. It can happen at home with your partner, at work with the boss or even on the road. Victims tend to blame themselves and that results in them not reporting such issues even when they are aware of the harasser. Many Caribbean counties have put aside the importance to protect our women. It was only in 2021 in Jamaica that a bill was passed that updated the Sexual Harassment (Protection and Prevention) Act. In 2005, offences against the Person (Amendment) (Harassment) Act were updated in Trinidad and Tobago.
What if you witness any type of Harassment?
Generally, the human population must protect each other and sometimes that means protecting one another from each other. If one should observe any foul play which is an unpleasant, unwanted or unnecessary company or acts towards another, here are some ways to assist:
- Create a distraction- whatever you can do to interrupt or stop the harassment. However, this may put you at risk and may trigger anger in the harasser.
- Report it to the authorises- think about the possibility of you saving the individual that may be trapped with this harasser. This might be the safest intervention.
- Direct communication- asks the individual that you think might be harassed. In cases of school or work, agencies are in place to serve and protect. Also, it is your right to be protected by the state hence provisions must be made for you.
The Effects of Harassment
Survivors of sexual harassment tend to become a heavy burden. Many of which suffers
Psychologically.
Physical
- Increased Stress Level
- Eating disorder
- Sleeping disorder
- Sickness- headaches
Mental
- Anxiety
- Depression
- PTSD- Post-traumatic stress disorder
- Suicidal
Emotional
- Guilt
- Fear
- Shame or humiliation
- Powerless
Educate Self about Harassment
There are numerous websites, blogger sites, and videos where harassment information is accessible. Here are a few sites:
Visit the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) to learn more about sexual harassment laws and your rights
Visit the https://www.who.int/initiatives/preventing-and-responding-to-sexual-exploitation-abuse-and-harassment to understand that harassment can transit into other things.
to understand that there are policies created to protect you.
Visit https://www.ilo.org/caribbean/information-resources/publications/WCMS_857753/lang–en/index.htm#:~:text=The%20Sexual%20Harassment%20(Protection%20and,in%20any%20other%20daily%20interactions to know the laws that protect you within Jamaica.
Expectation
In our Jamaican culture, we might not be able to remove “catcalling” but I think we can regenerate the thinking power of the population which would result in men valuing women and respecting them. The idealistic approach would be to remove music that tears down and degrade women and then, a drive in all schools to promote safer ways to communicate male versus female.
Additionally, Jamaica does not have enough support groups and facilities for victims of harassment. The implementation of a few facilities could assist in reducing the after-effects.
Limitations of this article
There was limited research conducted within Jamaica and other Caribbean countries, which made the literature few.
More articles showed up with “Tourism and Harassment”.
Cultural diversities showed how less of an importance harassment is especially with our women and children.
